When to use this template
- A close family member died near the due date.
- Grief, caring for the person before the death, or estate duties stopped you from filing or paying.
- You filed and paid within a reasonable time afterwards.
Reasonable cause letter: Death of Family Member
Replace every [bracketed] blank with your own facts and dates, and delete what does not apply. Only state what you can document.
42 blanks to fill in
[Your full name] [Spouse's full name, if a joint return (optional)] [Street address] [City, state and ZIP code] [Daytime phone number]
[Date]
Internal Revenue Service [Address from your notice, or the IRS address for your state]
Re: Request for penalty relief for reasonable cause (Death of Family Member) Taxpayer: [Your full name] Taxpayer ID: [SSN or ITIN] Tax form and year: [Tax form, for example 1040], [Tax year] Notice: [Notice number, for example CP14] dated [Notice date] Penalty: [Penalty name, for example failure-to-file], [Penalty amount]
Dear Sir or Madam:
I am asking the IRS to remove the [Penalty name, for example failure-to-file] penalty of [Penalty amount] for tax year [Tax year] for reasonable cause. Below I explain what happened, how it kept me from complying, and what I did to comply once I could. Copies of supporting documents are enclosed.
1. What Happened
On [Date of Death], my [Relationship], [Decedent Name], passed away. [Pronoun] was [Age at Death (optional)] years old. The cause of death was [Cause of Death (optional)]. Prior to [Possessive Pronoun] passing, I served as [Caregiving Role (optional)] from [Caregiving Start Date (optional)] to [Date of Death]. Following the death, I was responsible for [Estate Responsibilities].
2. How It Prevented Compliance
The death of my [Relationship] prevented me from [What You Could Not Do] because [Specific Reason]. [If Spouse Handled Taxes (optional)] During this period, I was consumed with [Grief and Responsibilities] and was unable to [Specific Limitations]. The tax filing deadline fell [Timing Relative to Death].
3. Ordinary Business Care Exercised
Prior to this tragedy, I/we exercised ordinary business care by [Prior Care Actions]. [Spouse Arrangement (optional)] I have a history of [Compliance History]. I was not able to [Why No Delegation (optional)] because [Delegation Obstacle (optional)].
4. Corrective Actions Taken
Once immediate estate and family matters were addressed, I took the following corrective actions: [Corrective Actions]. I [Filing/Payment Action] on [Compliance Date], approximately [Time After Death] after the death. I have since [Future Arrangements (optional)] to ensure timely compliance going forward.
For these reasons, I ask the IRS to remove the penalty. If you need more information, you can reach me at [Daytime phone number]. Thank you for considering my request.
Sincerely,
[Signature] [Your full name]
[Spouse's signature, if a joint return (optional)] [Spouse's full name, if a joint return (optional)]
Enclosures: - Copy of notice [Notice number, for example CP14] - Death Certificate - Proof of Relationship - Estate Documents
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Open the free toolWhat to attach
- Copy of the IRS noticeRequired
All pages.
- Death CertificateRequired
Official death certificate showing date of death
- Proof of RelationshipRequired
Document showing your relationship to deceased
- Estate DocumentsOptional
Letters testamentary, executor appointment, or probate documents
- ObituaryOptional
Published obituary showing death date and family relationship
- Funeral/Memorial ProgramOptional
Funeral service program showing dates and your role
- Caregiver DocumentationOptional
Evidence of caregiving duties before death
Where to send it
If you are answering a notice, mail your request to the return address on that notice.
No notice? Use the IRS address for your state below. It is the address for Form 1040 returns without a payment; business and other returns use different addresses.
Keep a copy of everything you send, and use a mailing method that gives you proof of mailing.
Where to file addresses on irs.govMake your letter stronger
What to stress
- The CLOSENESS of the relationship (spouse/parent/child are strongest)
- If deceased handled tax matters for the household
- Your RESPONSIBILITIES: caregiver, executor, funeral arranger
- The TIMING of death relative to the tax deadline
- The CONSUMING nature of grief and estate responsibilities
- Your OTHERWISE clean compliance history
What not to say
- "I was too sad to think about taxes" - needs more specific impact
- Death of distant relative (uncle, cousin) without caregiving/estate role
- "I forgot because of grief" - forgetfulness is never valid
- Suggesting death was anticipated but no arrangements were made
- Delays of many months after death without explanation
Common reasons the IRS says no
- Death of distant relative without direct impact on taxpayer
- Death occurred months before deadline with no ongoing duties
- Another household member was available to handle taxes
- Extended delay after death without estate/caregiving duties
- Lack of documentation of relationship or responsibilities
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